30. august 2011

One of the worst feelings in the world is having to doubt something you thought was unquestionable

"I'm sorry" will eventually lose it's meaning if you keep apologizing over and over.

Silence is a girl's loudest cry

Be careful of what you say and what you promise, because once you say it, you can never take it back

I can't force myself to forget about your face. You're everywhere, like a memory I can't erase.


you just have to learn to forget the people who forgot about you

And when you forget her, dont you dare remember me

I'm too in love to let it go

they say school is supposed to educate you, well to be honest the only thing i've learned is how to pretend like nothing's wrong

Don't hurt someone intentionally just because they once hurt you accidentally

Yeah I miss you. I miss us. I miss having you to talk to whenever I wanted. But I know I have to move on, because this is pointless.

Its sad how nowadays most guys don't appreciate a good woman.

No girl believes she is beautiful until a guy comes along & makes her feel like she is

Every relationship is messed up, but what makes it perfect is if you still want to be there when things really suck.

Better to be told the truth and hurt for a moment then to be told what you want to hear and hurt forever.

If someone is taken. They are taken. Respect relationships.

I love when he randomly messages me because I know I was on his mind for at least one moment.

That moment when you can actually feel the pain in your chest from seeing or hearing something that breaks your heart.

Don't get mad if I care too much, you should really start to worry when I don't care at all.

If someone is taken, they're taken. Don't try to ruin their relationship just because you want them. Breaking them up, that's just wrong

One minute of kissing burns 25 calories...No wonder those sluts are so damn skinny.

When a girl tells you to "have fun" it means she wants you to have a horrible time without her.

What hurts more? Knowing you can't have him or knowing she can?

Never say, "I don't want to lose you" when you aren't fighting to make her stay.

It’s hard to forget someone who you have imagined spending forever with

Don't you wish love was like Volleyball? You yell "Mine" and everybody backs the fuck off

God made most guys taller then girls so that when a girl hugs a guy, she can hear if his heart is beating for her or if nothings there.

There will always be those awkward moments when you walk by a person & remember everything you had.

If I aint got nothing, I got you.
If I aint got something I don't give a damn, cause I got it with you.
I don't know much about algebra, but I know one plus one equals two and it's me and you, thats all we'll have when the world is thru.
Cause baby we aint got nothing without love
When my days look low, pull me in close and don't let me go.
Make love to me. So that when the worlds at war, that our love heal us all
I don't know much about guns but I...I've been shot by you
And I don't know when I'm gon die, but I hope that I'm gon die by you
And I don't know much about fighting, but I, I know I will fight for you
Just when I ball up my fist I realize that I'm laying right next to you

29. juuli 2011

Every happy couple has at least one breakup behind them


You still look at me the way you used to... That must mean something, right?

The funny thing about breakups is they point out what we didn't even know we had, but don't give us the option of going back into battle armed with that knowledge.

When your ex gave you their love you had it to keep. That which is given to you, cannot be taken away from you. The only thing taken away from you was the wish to have it given to you again

Do not take another's bad opinion of you as the truth. Nothing others think or say about you is about you, but rather a reflection of their own reality.

Obsession is feeling fearful that you may be losing him; detachment is knowing that he may be losing you; and apathy is the past tense of both


Based on a string of bad breakups, I was forced to examine my choice of partners. Surely, that must have abolished me from any wrongdoing

I can embrace myself, hold my own hand, love me - but I can't gaze into my own eyes and feel my own soul lift me up.

The dark of night does not come after the golden glow of the day's sun but before it.

No one is spared the pain of rejection, except the ignorant and the fool. Which my ex just happens to be both of.

Your closing your eyes to me, opened my eyes to you.


Mars and Venus? Nope. The only problem between the genders is that we each have the others needs and wants backwards. Men want to be needed, and women need to be wanted. Not the other way around. It's that simple!

The greatest experience we can ever have is usually not a welcomed one at that time.

To err is human, to forgive is just like asking for it all over again


I used to treat those who did me wrong with disdain and unacceptance. I was afraid that if I were to treat them nicely it would mean that I was giving them the 'go-ahead', 'thumbs-up', to hurt me again. Little did I know that I was only reaffirming that their choice to hurt me to begin with was the right choice

When I first met my partner, I rejoiced in him. What splendid, fascinating, and new things he brought to my stagnant life. For instance, he could talk for hours about space and music. And now, three-and-one-half years later I realize that he can talk for hours about space and music. Despite this, I still love him.


Most people are afraid that if they back off a little that the object of their affection will move on and eventually forget about them. But, ironically, the real reason is that they, themselves, are afraid that if they back off that THEY will forget about the object of their affection and move on, and this they don't want to do.

If we are but one, then to hold you accountable is to hold me accountable. To love you, is to love myself, To forgive you is to leave me without blame, also. Ah, the peace!


It's not the days, the hours, the minutes, nor the seconds that count. It's man's actions and reactions to them that make or break his life's journey

It's always the same in every relationship, there is always one person crying and wishing to get back together, while the other doesn't even remember the things they've been through. I hate that I have to be the one who remembers every little detail while you can't seem to remember me at all.

We laughed until we had to cry, we loved right down to our last goodbye, but over the years we'll smile and recall for just one moment we had it all.

The sorrow which has no vent in tears may make other organs weep

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight

A woman wears her tears like jewelry

Every woman is wrong until she cries, and then she is right - instantly

The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost

The hottest love has the coldest end

Why can't we get all the people together in the world that we really like and then just stay together? I guess that wouldn't work. Someone would leave. Someone always leaves. Then we would have to say good-bye. I hate good-byes. I know what I need. I need more hellos

i fear the thought of falling for something that will never be mine


I don't need you, but i choose to want you


she's going through an emotional hurricane inside but nobody knows

when you love someone, but the love is lost. could it get worse?


i want someone that will have my friends saying to one another .. "shes happy again"

darling, you didn't crush me, you completley destroyed me.


The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence


So I'll erase everything and forget about you. Too bad that this will be the hardest thing I'll ever have to do


5. juuli 2011

Just because it didn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while.


It’s funny how you can still love a person, but you stop needing them like you used to.

I didn't change, I just found myself


What made you happy once, might not make you happy now.


Because things are the way they are, things will not stay the way they are.


Things do not change; we change

We've all grown up, and there's no denying that. But it's tough to tell if in that growing up, we've simply grown apart.

Every single thing changes and is changing always in this world. Yet with the same light the moon goes on shining.
Every beginning is a consequence - every beginning ends some thing.

We spend our time searching for security and hate it when we get it

I really don't think that anyone in this world knows the real me. My closest friends know me better than anyone else, but I don't think I’ve ever let certain sides of me come out around anyone except myself. I keep some feelings hidden because no one would understand, and even if they did understand, there wouldn't be anything that anyone could do to make the feelings disappear.


"It hurts to look at yourself in the mirror and hate yourself, look into the mirror and wonder what ever happened to that smile that used to shine so bright. When you look at yourself, you see this version of "you" that your mind has created, someone that has become so distant and cold that nobody wants to be around her. Empty eyes. Fragile bones. The only thing you have left are the lies you tell yourself everyday to survive, lies that have become your painful reality, lies that will swallow you whole and crush your insides, lies that have turned you into someone you never wanted to be.."


Do you ever get that feeling where you don't want to talk to anybody? You don't want to smile and you don't want to fake being happy. But at the same time you don't know exactly what's wrong either. There isn't a way to explain it to someone who doesn't already understand. If you could want anything in the world it would be to be alone. People have stopped being comforting and being along never was. At least when you're alone no one will constantly ask you what is wrong and there isn't anyone who won't take 'I don't know' for an answer. You feel the way you do just because. You hope the feeling will pass soon and that you will be able to be yourself again, but until then all you can do is wait.

Forget what you heard, recognize what you see. I know you heard the rumors... now here's the real me


People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.


Great changes are easier than small ones.


The only completely consistent people are dead


When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us.


Silence has become normal between us. Not the nice kind of silence, or the comfortable kind of silence. But the awkward kind of silence, like between strangers. Our silence is an avoidance of the truth.


I've learned that things change, people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up. It simply means you move on and treasure the memories. Letting go doesn't mean giving up, it means accepting that some things weren't meant to be



28. juuni 2011

nobody wants to be the last one


It's always the same in every relationship, there is always one person crying and wishing to get back together, while the other doesn't even remember the things they've been through. I hate that I have to be the one who remembers every little detail while you can't seem to remember me at all.

You can't ever let go of all the feelings, But you need to let go of him

The hardest part of dreaming about someone you love is having to wake up.

I just realized, it's so lonely being free.

Someday never really comes, does it?


No one can promise they’ll never hurt you, because at one time or another they will. The real promise is if the time you spent together will be worth the pain in the end.

Oled kunagi kogenud sellist armastust, et tunned nagu ei suudakski enam olla ilma temata? Oled kunagi olnud kellegiga tülis ja teadnud kui homme sa teda näed,siis pole kõik enam endine? Oled kunagi tahtnud kedagi nii väga,et oleksid sellejaoks kõik-võimeline? Oled kedagi kunagi nii väga igatsenud,et tahaksid oma südame välja rebida? Oled kunagi nii palju nutnud,et tunned nagu oleksid justkui kõik pisarad välja nutnud ja tekib vedeliku puuduse tunne? Oled kunagi armastanud kedagi, teades,et ta sind vastu ei armasta? On sulle kunagi keegi nii väga meeldinud aga sa lihtsalt ei suuda seda talle öelda?


Nii valus on mõelda, et inimesed ei muutu enam tagasi sellisteks nagu nad olid kunagi varem. Valus on mõelda, kuidas öeldud sõnu ja tehtud tegusid ei saa tagasi võtta. Valus on mõelda ja teada,et olnud aega ei saa enam tagasi, neid ei saa isegi mitte enam korrata. Teeksin kõik kui vaid suudaksin, oskaksin ja tahaksin,et kõik oleks jälle endine.


Kuidas keegi saab teha nii jäägitult haiget ja peale seda ikka teda edasi armastada

Imelik on mõelda,kuidas Sa tähendasid mulle nii palju, kuidas me olime igapäev koos ja Sa rääkisid mulle kui piiritult Sa mind armastad, kuidas Sa panid mind pisarateni naerma, kuidas Sa ei suutnud mind mitte kunagi nutma jätta, kuidas Sa hoolisid ja armastasid mind ja nüüd... kõnnime üksteisest mööda,nagu poleks kunagi midagi olnudki. Nagu Sa poleks mitte kunagi olnud üks suur osa mu elust, mu igast päevast, mu südamest.


Best thing about tonight's that we're not fighting could it be that we have been this way before.
I know you don't think that I am trying. I know you're wearing thin down to the core.

Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego..

The only man who is really free is the one who can turn down an invitation to dinner without giving an excuse.

In some families, please is described as the magic word. In our house, however, it was sorry.

If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say? And why are you waiting?

It is easier to forgive an enemy than to forgive a friend.


No matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes to heal, you’ll never get through it without your friends.

Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to him


When you break up, your whole identity is shattered. You are no longer alive.


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.

I miss you a little, I guess you could say, a little too much, a little too often, and a little more each day.

I’m going to smile and make you think I’m happy, I’m going to laugh, so you don’t see me cry, I’m going to let you go in style, and even if it kills me - I’m going to smile

We laughed until we had to cry, we loved right down to our last goodbye, but over the years we'll smile and recall for just one moment we had it all.

Love unreturned is like a question without an answer.


I would like to stay a secret, like walking in the dark, if no one knows you, no one cares and no one breaks your heart.

Loving someone that doesn't love you is like reaching for a star - You know you'll never reach it but you just got to keep trying.


Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see him smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over him to ease the pain of knowing that he will never be yours.

Look in my eyes and you will find me, but look in my heart and you will find you.

I swore to myself it wouldn't happen again. I vowed to myself that this was the end. The end of this longing, this yearning so strong... I said I was over you, but oh I was so wrong.

Someone should sue Disney for planting the ideas in little kids heads that every girl has a prince and everything ends up happily ever after.

How do I say goodbye to someone I never really had? Why do my tears fall so endlessly for someone who was never really mine? Why is it I miss someone I was never really with? And why do I love someone whose love was never really mine?

I'm not over you because I don't like you anymore, I'm over you because I've realized that you're never going to want me like I want you.

Why did I have to fall for you when you just keep falling for her?

Missing you isn't the hard part, knowing I once had you is what breaks my heart
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And there you are..holding her hand..and I'm lost..trying to understand...


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26. juuni 2011


Nii... nüüd ongi siis see aeg käes. Enam ei tee Sina ja mina kokku meid. Enam ei saa ma Sind niisama kallistada ja musitada, Sa ei luba enam end isegi puutuda. Ma ei saa Sulle niisama otsa vaadata ja naeratada, nautida lihtsalt niisama su ilusaid pruune silme. Ma ei saa enam anda Sulle oma armastust mis on piiritu nagu Sa ju tead. Ma ei saa enam Sulle niisama helistada, et küsida kus oled või mida teed. Ma ei tohi Sind enam isegi mitte välja kutsuda,sest Sul on nüüd oma elu ja minul enda oma. Ma ei saa enam Sind igapäev näha ja Sinuga tunde lihtsalt mingitest mõttetutest asjadest rääkida. Nüüd ma saan vaid vaadata Sind eemalt. Vaadata,kuidas Sa nüüd elad oma elu...vabana, mitte kellestki sõltuvana. Kuidas Sa saad käima hakata ükskõik kellega ja rääkida ning vaadata ükskõik keda.
Mulle teeb haiget juba ainuüksi teadmine et Sa võiksid kedagi sebida. Ilmselt see siis tapaks mind kui näeks kedagi Su kõrval, kedagi teist, kedagi... kes ei ole mina. Ütlesid kunagi mulle,et Sa ei jäta mind iial. Ilmselt siis sinu iial oli siis nüüd käes. Mul on nii valus end õhtuti magama nutta,sest iga asi mu toas ja mu ümber meenutab mulle Sind. Veelgi hullem on hommikuti ärgata,kui esimese asjana,mis mulle meenub, kui silmad lahti teen,et mul ei ole enam ju Sind, siis tekib tunne nagu ei tahakski enam kunagi ärgata. Sa olid üks suur põhjus miks ma igapäev üles tõusin, see muutis juba mu hommikud ilusamaks,kui teadsin et näen varsti Sind. Nüüd muudab mu hommikud nii kurvaks ja vesiseks see,kui mõtlen et ei saa enam võibolla,et kunagi Sinuga olla. Jah VÕIBOLLA... sest Sa ei ole veel otsustanud kas tahad et me lahkuminek oleks täielikult lõplik või vaid ajutine meeletus. Loodan praegu vaid sellele et Sa avastad, kui üksildane on elu ilma minuta, loodan et hakkad igatsema mind ja siis ehk tahad mind tagasi, aga tundes Sind on see väga vähetõenäoline. Isegi ka kui meil oleks jälle midagi, teeks see tunne,et võin Sind igahetk, mõne tähtsusetu asja pärast kaotada teeb haiget. Tõenäoliselt peaksin elama ma pidevad hirmus,et mil saabub jälle see hetk kui otsustad et meil on vaja jälle rääkida... Sa ütlesid,et armastus sai minu vastu otsa. Aga kas oli see siis üldse armastus? Arvan,et see oli vaid ajutine kiindumus, või armumine, see aeg, mil kõik tundus nii ilus ja perfektne. Aga lihtsalt siis meie tülidega see kõik kadus ja hakkasid ainult mu vigu tähele panema... ka siis kadus see armumine. Sest armastus on tunne mis jääb, see ei kao niisama,seda e i suudaks eal isegi tülid hävitada. Armastus on neid tugevam. Usun et see on kõigest tugevam,isegi ka surmast. Sest mina jään Sind alatiseks armastama. Isegi kui olen juba vana või noh pensionär, meenutan milline oli mu esimene armastus, esimene poiss kelle vastu mul olid niii sügavad tunded, et neist oleks meie kahe jaoks piisanud-

19. juuni 2011

Link


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